When to send wedding invitations?
The traditional etiquette suggests sending wedding invitations six to eight weeks before the wedding date. This gives guests enough time to clear their schedules, make travel arrangements if needed, and RSVP.
However, there are some factors to consider that might influence when you actually send your invitations:
- Save the Dates: If you sent out "Save the Dates" cards well in advance (typically 4-6 months before the wedding), you can send invitations a bit closer to the date, around four to six months before the wedding.
- Destination Weddings: For destination weddings, where guests might need to book flights and accommodations, it's recommended to send invitations even earlier, ideally three months in advance.
- Formal vs. Informal Weddings: Formal weddings might require a bit more lead time, so six to eight weeks is a good standard. Informal weddings can be a bit more flexible, with four to six weeks being acceptable.
- Busy Seasons: If your wedding is during a busy holiday season or peak travel time, consider sending invitations a bit earlier (eight weeks or even three months) to ensure guests can make arrangements.
Ultimately, the best time to send your invitations depends on your specific circumstances. Here's a quick summary:
- Traditional: 6-8 weeks before the wedding
- With Save the Dates: 4-6 months before the wedding
- Destination Weddings: 3 months before the wedding
- Formal Weddings: 6-8 weeks before the wedding
- Informal Weddings: 4-6 weeks before the wedding
- Busy Seasons: 8 weeks or even 3 months before the wedding
Remember, it's always better to err on the side of sending invitations earlier, especially if you have guests who need to travel. You can include an RSVP deadline on the invitation that's a few weeks before the wedding date.
What to write in a wedding card?
The content of your wedding card message will depend on your closeness to the couple and the formality of the event. Here are some options to get you started:
Formal Wedding Wishes:
- Congratulations on your wedding day! (Simple and classic)
- Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness together. (Warm and heartfelt)
- May the years ahead be filled with joy and laughter. (Focuses on future happiness)
- We are so honored to celebrate this special day with you. (Expresses gratitude for being included)
- Wishing you all the best as you embark on this new chapter of life. (Highlights a new beginning)
Informal Wedding Wishes:
- Congrats on tying the knot! (Casual and celebratory)
- Here's to a long and happy marriage! (Straightforward and well-wishing)
- So happy for you both! (Enthusiastic and joyful)
- Wishing you a lifetime of adventures together. (Highlights shared experiences)
- Can't wait to celebrate with you! (Expresses excitement for the wedding)
For Close Friends or Family:
- I'm so thrilled for you both! You deserve all the happiness in the world. (Personal and heartfelt)
- I can't wait to see you start this new chapter together. You're going to be amazing parents! (Mentions future plans)
- Thank you for letting me share in your special day. I love you both! (Expresses gratitude and love)
- Here's to many more years of laughter and friendship! (Highlights existing bond)
- I'm so lucky to have you both in my life. Wishing you a lifetime of love. (Expresses appreciation and well wishes)
Additional Tips:
- You can mention a specific memory you have of the couple.
- If you're giving a gift, you can briefly mention it in the card.
- Keep it concise and heartfelt.
- Sign your name(s).
I hope this helps you write a wonderful message for the wedding card!
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